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People are always asking what the most important element to a healthy relationship is. The    1   is there are many. But there is one really important thing that all great and healthy relationships have in common—   2   . Yes, of course, there are some little    3   lies even in the best of relationships—   4   surprises or unexpected birthday parties—but the truth is that happy couples communicate honestly and don’t    5   to protect their own interests. So how can you have more open    6   in your own relationship?

First, remember that honesty is the best policy even    7   your partner might not like what you have to say. Yes, it may be    8   to tell your guy that you don’t like one of his friends. But lying or holding things   9   will make things worse in the long run.

The next thing to be    10   is to say what you have to say    11   . If your partner feels    12   ,he will be less     13   to what you have to say and may even become defensive. Your delivery is of utmost importance when you are discussing sensitive issues. Think through what you want to say    14   before you bring it up. You don’t want to    15   the person that you love. You just want them to be    16   of the truth.

One last thing to keep in mind about communicating openly is that it enhances your relationship. If you aren’t honest about any dirty little    17   you may have, they will probably come up eventually and    18   you in the backside. And if you keep things to yourself, your relationship will not be based on the truth, which     19   a solid foundation. Hard     20   the truth may be sometimes, honesty really is the best policy.

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